Bobby Hopkins

Bobby Hopkins, who passed away at the age of 50, was a man of quiet dignity. His presence was like the new moon—though he might have been far away and maybe you could not see him, he was always there, always watching, regardless of the distance or circumstances.

Bob was a gifted musician; rarely did he exist without an instrument within reach. For years, he played harmoniously with his brothers. He even tried to start a band with his three oldest children when they were young. He composed a song for them called "Butterfly," which he recorded and cherished.

Bob's love for his four children was marked by a fierce protective instinct and a deep commitment to guiding them through life's complexities and teaching them life lessons through his words and actions when he could. He cherished each child individually, celebrating their unique attributes and encouraging their personal growth. 

His protective nature was always coupled with a desire to instill resilience and kindness in his children. Bob's approach to fatherhood aimed to shield them from adversity while preparing them to face the world with compassion and strength. His fierce protection was a blanket of comfort. Even during his own struggles, Bob's priority was to prepare his children for life's harsher realities and how to navigate them, aiming to preserve their innocence and joy as long as possible. 

Bob’s yearning for a simple life remained undiminished. He dreamed of a world he could call his own, nestled on a backroad in a small town, surrounded by his kids, a dog, and some chickens. He sought simplicity in an ever-fast-paced world, a testament to his truly gentle soul.

As I reflect on his life, I realize that Bob taught us all the importance of patience, not taking every word spoken at face value. Because on the surface of stubborn conversations or misunderstood intentions, there were always deeper meanings to interpret. I learned it is important to remember this concept not only with ourselves but with each other. The quiet demeanor and the reflective thoughts he shared were his true gifts to us. These will linger in the quiet moments, in the spaces he once filled so effortlessly.

Bob, you were loved and will be missed profoundly. You shaped your world with the best intentions, and you shaped our hearts with your spirit. As we say goodbye, we take solace in knowing that your legacy will continue to live on, not just in music and writing, but in the thoughtful patience you planted in all of us.